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How to Solve Your Problems in 3 Easy Steps

by: Jason Gracia

We all encounter problems each day, and depending on our attitude towards problems, we fix them or add fuel to the fire. The following tips will help you to become a problem solver. When you encounter problems in the future, you will be equipped with the necessary tools to solve it fast, and for good.

1. NO MORE EXCUSES
When problems occur, too many people make excuses for themselves or others, and the problem continues indefinitely. 'I'm only crabby because you make me that way.' This excuse will cover up the source of the problem, and any solution will be short term, and soon vanish.

We must take responsibility for our attitudes and our actions. If we are in a bad mood, or if someone else is always negative, it is because of the person, not outside influences. Once we forgo the excuses for responsibility, change can occur.

2. FIND THE SOURCE
Lasting change can only come from fixing the source of the problem. Giving out band aides isn't the solution if the floor is covered with nails. This isn't an easy task, and that's why so few people take the time to do it. When you find the source, you will fix it forever, and save yourself from troubles in the future. That is why it is worth your time and effort.

When the problems that you face each day are slowly being fixed, your mood and attitude will also improve. A good attitude spreads, and will infect those around you. Not only will your problems be less, you will create a good attitude within yourself and others.

3. FIX IT
Once you know the source, fix it. If you are always in a negative mood because you don't like your job, then it's time to find a new line of work. If your friend always expects people to fail, then perhaps he needs to experience success with his own goals.

This last step is the most important and most overlooked. Even when people discover the solution to their problems, they cover up their responsibility with excuses. It is hard to admit fault, but without that step a change for the better cannot happen.

No more excuses, only sources to the problems. Find the source, fix it and have yourself happier days.

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About The Author

by Jason Gracia - Motivation123
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