What do you do when your child won't eat? Many parents today
are facing this issue more so than you would think. Toddlers,
especially, assert their independence by becoming a picky eater
sometimes. No need to panic if your child doesn't get the
recommended number of calories a day. Instead of panicking,
focus on helping your child develop good eating habits.
(First, we'd like to say that you should always consult your
family doctor first in any concern about your child.)
Good eating habits can be accomplished in many ways.
Start off by offering your child the regular three meals a day
and three snacks a day. When planning out meals, make certain
to contain a variety of foods consisting of many options that
you know your child likes and other options he/she hasn't tried
or doesn't like.
If at first your child doesn't show interest in a certain food,
try again. You should try at least up to ten times. Increasing
familiarity of a certain food may help your child like it
after several tries.
Though your own mother told you not to play with your food and
therefore you tell your child not to either, change that train
of thought. Let your child have fun with food. They can make
faces in their meals, shape a meal with cookie cutters, pretend
potatoes are cake and cut it up with their fork, etc. Let them
be creative, and be creative with them.
If your child is resistant to your efforts, try adding cheese,
a little bit of salt or sugar to spice it up for them. Cheese
makes a great add on for vegetables. Children are more likely
to enjoy them with their favorite melt atop of it.
Limit the amount of milk and juice intake. Although good for
your child, you should limit the intake of milk to only three 8
oz glasses a day, and juice to only about 4 oz. a day.
And always remember that it is not good to force a child to
eat. Your child knows when they are hungry and full. Trust
them to be able to tell the difference on their own. If your
child won't eat dinner but insists on snack, they probably are
still hungry. Offer a compromise, for example: If they eat
half of their dinner, you will allow them to have a snack
afterwards. If still hungry after snack, they may return to
their dinner plate. (This is only an example)
If your child is underweight, you can help add extra calories
by slipping in dry nonfat powdered milk into your child's milk,
yogurt, pudding, mac-n-cheese, or even soup. Also, make use of
these tasty foods that can help pack in the calories: cream
cheese, peanut butter, syrup, and margarine.
If you think that nothing is helping, you should consult your
family doctor. Always consult your family doctor in any case
of concern for your child to start with first.
© 2002 CJ Krebs
All Rights Reserved
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About The Author
CJ Krebs, proud mother of four children, who writes short
parenting articles and bible studies for Sheeze.com. She also helps
maintain and moderate The Parenting World
board.
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